In this part I will discuss fourth tip for husbands and wives, so trust is my theme for this article as it is the most important thing in our life is trust.
I would say that trust has many entrances as well as many meanings in our life . Trust means to give the person you trust all faith, loyalty, sincerity, honesty, as well as your soul.
What I found these days that we can`t find the right person to trust as partners tend to hide things from each other , because the other person may feel depressed from knowing bitter truth , such frankness hurts.
For me frankness means to be open and truthful in front of the person you choose to be your match , the same person you choose to complete your whole life, but the bitter truth is that we found dishonest ,this is not apply to all for most people ,you cant find the real person to trust these days as materialistic world dominates ,maybe you find it silly or nonsense and would say how come this has nothing to do with materialistic world ,I would explain it in my own words and say jealousy besides envy make human beings are blind ,they break trust when it comes to one`s interest.
For example, partners when one is more successful than the other especially in marriage ,men can`t endure the idea that women are more successful in different positions ,have the ability to be powerful, successful, this means for most men the loss, disability to dominate ,depression , as well as not highly self-esteem .
So the conclusion that some men tend to be more aggressive ,break the trust of their wives ,tried to break their success ,achievements,to depress their wives ,let them down to reach their goals and to dominate.
I would recommend that trust is very very important to build secure, strong, fortitude family ,it is all about trust between family members ,we should believe and trust our God first,then to trust our family if they deserve it. If not it is another story everything will be irritated ,dull and not comfortable.
Finally,we should choose the right person to trust as these days things become more complicated and changeable.(To be Continued).
